I Found An Enneagram Marriage Coach

Lately, Faith and I have been learning more about this amazing tool called the Enneagram. “What if we could find a marriage coach who used the language of the Enneagram to help us understand each other better?” Through a few months of searching, we found @EnneagramAndMarriage on Instagram, and last fall we went through a program led by its’ author and founder.

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Lessons from a Lyft Driver

As an introvert, I get my best work done sitting on an airplane, in a hotel lounge, or sitting in the backseat of a stranger’s car—surrounded by people, but alone. Recently, though, I was in the back of a Lyft car and instead of pulling out my computer like I wanted to do, I kept it in my backpack and I talked to her. What I learned was invaluable.

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Pastoral Succession (Part 1): The Elephant in the Room

Succession is the elephant in the room of every church with a pastor that is in their mid-50’s or older. The pastor doesn’t want to bring it up too soon, because he or she fears that the just mentioning the word will bring it on faster than they would like. And the Board or Elders don’t want to bring it up, because they don’t want to give any indication they are trying to push the pastor out.

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The Great (Irrelevant) Debate: Is your Church Missional or Attractional – Part 4

In whatever method you find to “do” church – it can be both missional and attractional. It can be about both sending and gathering. It can be about equipping your people to be a difference in their homes and workplaces. And it can also be about putting on an attractive weekend service that makes it easy for your members to invite the people they care about the most.

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The Great (Irrelevant) Debate: Is your Church Missional or Attractional – Part 1

Each new model tells us why the way we are doing church isn’t working or isn’t good enough. We are told how all the previous model were fads and the newest one is going to replace all of them. We are told we need to change everything, go back to the drawing board and do something different—because everything we’ve done in the past was misguided, ineffective and possibly even sinful.

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